Sunday, November 22, 2009

Next Gather: Coming Out

Yay! The next Gather will take place on Sunday, December 6th at 5:15pm. Where? you may ask...the LGBT Community Center in Room 312.

Stairway access to this room only...sorry, but will have wine and treats there to reward your effort.
Let's share our stories, reminisce about stories past, and talk about if the process of coming out is ever complete.

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Sunday, November 8, 2009

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Thursday, October 1, 2009

October 4th's Gather






Sunday, September 6, 2009

Next Gather: The Femme Mystique

On Sunday, October 4th from 5:15pm to 7pm at the LGBT Community Center (Rm 410), Gather will be delving into the second group within our lesbian identity series: FEMMES. We discussed butch women, now it is time to address the Femme Mystique. Again, be sure to come for the wine, good company, good conversation, and most importantly, to Gather.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

This is What I'm Talkin' About

I just went to Fire Island, Cherry Grove, with some friends this past weekend. It was for the Fire Island Black Out. Now, I have NEVER seen so many gays beachfront. It was great, and the best part was the lesbian touch football game. I think there were more than a few tackles, but hey...

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Gather's Lesbian Identities Panel, Part Uno

Gather this weekend was absolutely fantastic, I've been pretty much speechless since then. We had over 60 people in attendance, and each of our panelists had something unique and thought-provoking to say about butch identities. Kate Roberts, Diana Cage, Emma Crandall, and A.J. Stachelek shared their thoughts on what it means to be butch, who they thought were butch "celebrities", why butch women are sexy, and discussed what they think is next up for the butch community. I learned something new from each panelists perspective, and I can only hope the folks listening did too. Here's some pix (much more to come) ....


Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Gather this Sunday

Monday, June 22, 2009

What Makes a Butch Woman, well, Butch?

The next Gather is approaching, and I've had a few impromptu discussions already about butch lesbians. With the news that Chastity Bono will soon be transitioning to become Chaz, it seems like it may be difficult to NOT talk about transgender men on this butch panel. It is interesting as the butch identity may arguably be the most common identity conjured when one thinks of a "lesbian," but the emergence and visibility of the transgender community may transform this thinking.

This all leads me to ask, are lesbians defined as butch based on the way they dress? How they carry themselves? Is it a state of mind? Is it a role they play with their partners? Are certain behaviors more butch than others?? OR, is a lesbian woman butch simply because she identifies herself that way??

Where to begin? How about July 12th at the LGBT Center?